Journal
Practical notes on family life
Notes on household design, the French family table, the mental load, and the difference between a coach and a clinician.
How to stop being the default parent
The default parent problem isn't solved by a conversation. It's solved by a written system - and by one uncomfortable rule.
How to stop being the default parent
The default parent problem isn't solved by a conversation. It's solved by a written system - and by one uncomfortable rule.
Dividing the mental load, in writing
Why splitting tasks fifty-fifty doesn't fix the imbalance, and what to split instead.
Family coach, therapist or paediatrician - who do you need?
A plain comparison of what each one does, what each one can't do, and how to tell which you're describing.